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He said that he "becomes dead" when people try to force him to open up emotionally, and that he hates who he becomes when that happens. He said up front that he will never want to get married, and will never live with me (anyone he is in a relationship with) and that both of these past relationships ended when the woman changed her mind on their agreement and asked him to move in with them. He said that the past two relationships he was in ended badly because the woman agreed at the beginning that she would not expect "more" from him (emotional intimacy-wise) and that he doesn't want that to happen again. He is interested in a long-term relationship that is monogamous, he just knows that he will want to keep up certain boundaries like no moving in together, and controlled involvement in each other's lives. He also has concerns about staying over at my place, having me at his place, basically anything that would "spiral" into us spending too much time together. He had a terrible childhood, which he says he mostly has blocked out (to the point where he says he has very little ability for social memory at all even for things that have happened in his adult life - he won't remember what he talked about with me or what we did last time we hung out unless I remind him) and that his emotional baggage would take years of therapy to sort out, which he is not interested in going through right now. He admitted that he is terrified of getting too intimately involved with someone because he doesn't want to lose control over his life, doesn't want to have his time monopolized or monopolize my time, and because of that he has very set ideas about how often we will see each other (two or three times a week, more or less).

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incredibly beautiful !!

So if you're on a train going through tunnels it looks like you're going on and offline constantly which many people misinterpret as actively using the site. Logged in or not, you're there, Cyber stalking him. And yes, that "last online" thing is, like most features on POF, incredibly unreliable. Especially if he has the mobile app, which basically displays you as online all the time it has internet connection.

you get with her you start falling for her, you take in the baby as your own as a stepkid, the divorce is finalized, you are off in your merry ways, then some time later the ex starts calling, starts spending time with the kid, then she becomes confused because the ex is now caring and all her old feelings are popping up. God just keep your distance from her and be there to support her when she needs it, because the story goes like this.

It will never get better because it takes HIM to do something and he is apparently doing very little, but just enough that you would think he is doing something and it gives you a reason for more justifying and him a reason to say he is trying. That is a downward spiral.