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hi looking for a fun time hit me up;.

Thanks for the good advice, appreciate it.

You, have a system you use for potential suitors, a combination of specific boundaries and behaviors you utilize, to keep yourself on solid ground. Maybe a better word would be, both of you are using the same "system" when it comes to each other. It appears to me that both of you are playing the same game. (and the two shall never meet) I say the word game, but in your case, I'm not feeling it's a game like others play, but the best word to describe whats going on between you two. (nice and safe) This guy has specific behaviors and boundaries he uses to "separate his worlds" - in this case, his homelife and family are particular things he would like to draw borders around, and shield anyone outside of those parameters, from experiencing the drama and hurt he has gone through.

Historically for me, it's around date 6-8, after exclusivity is established. Yes, I should have clarified that. But by no means on the second date.

If you where depressed or even if he was then I could understand your issue better. When you allow this you make yourself look weak and you let them be in charge of you. What you have here is not normal in the sense. You take care of yourself mentally, physically and emotionally. This is not the way to go at all. But do not let anyone tell you how to live and how to be.

My kids and Grandkids are my life. I was raised on the out skirts of a small town so I am a country girl at heart. I live life to. But now it's time for me. Very independent and have been for years.