Vicki

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She will continue to do her best to sabotage your relationship as long as he will allow it--distance or no distance. He needs to let her know that her behaviour is inappropriate. I have a thread in "Jealousy" about someone hanging on so I know the feeling. You have a right to be concerned. He may be just friends (or at least thinks that he is) but she's not there. I think that his idea of just friends and hers don't mesh. It ought to be making him uncomfortable and the fact that it's not, makes me wonder a bit.

I enjoy golf, billiards and mm. I'm an articulate, decent man.

For starters, yes, we can see somone and know that we think he's hot and would like to sleep with him IF, IF, his personality is also good.

Since then she would pop up every month or so where I hang out and flirt. We have no history. She constantly messages me saying she misses my face and friendship. Me and one of my former friends had a crush on each other but never did anything. She always made an excuse to come over and grab on my privates or have me over and eat with her and her bf and try to kiss me when he went in the bathroom. We never kissed or had sex so I don't get the attraction. Maybe I should just tell her to leave me alone. Like twice a week for 3 years. She got married 4 years ago. Every time we had a chance I would pass. I weened myself from her 5 years ago because we really didn't get along besides being attracted to each other. She always had a different bf the entire time. She tells everyone she likes me. She even got into it with a couple of women I was dating.

Until you start exhibiting some genuine interest, which I doubt you will since you feel you are better than her, this is going to go nowhere. I wouldn't even be bothering with you anymore.

No, you are not too uptight.

She also get a bit jealous when ever she sees me talking to other women online. I've tried talking to her about it and she she insists everything’s fine and that she loves me.