Woledgberal

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A few months after our falling out and her moving to another state, she had a bad breakup with a girlfriend and says she was so traumatized by it that she ended up in bed with a guy several times and in a relationship with him. Shocked, betrayed, slighted, misled, and a whole bunch of other feelings I can't even describe. Well, about 3 weeks ago we're talking and she very casually drops what was to me a bombshell. The first thought that came into my head when she told me was "that was supposed to be me!!!". I haven't been able to get this out of my head, not to mention images of her being with this guy that wake me up in the middle of the night. As difficult as it had been, I had kept my feelings for her to myself because she had told me that this would have been completely impossible!!! I felt like someone had dunked me in a tub of ice cold water.

I ignored all the warning signs. Why would she go all the way to the other side of the city to have lunch with him, when she rarely had time for lunch with me? I paid it no attention. Why, suddenly did she find fault with things about me that had never been a problem before? I would add that my ex had a guy who was "an old dear friend." Not being one to ever dictate to my wife who she could call friend, I took her at her word. When we moved back here, the started having more frequent contact, with emails and a chat on the phone every few weeks. Why is it that this guy never called for a chat in the evenings when I was home? When she left, they only had an occasional email "hey, how are you" correspondance. And what is up with this sudden lack of sexual desire? She had lived in the city we now live in before we were married. Why did she never invite him to dinner as she did her other friends? Why was she growing more and more distant and detached from our relationship? She hadn't had much contact with her "friend" in several years.

love to be swimming with these two